Did You Know That You Can Make A Man Desire You So Much That He Craves You?

December 23, 2011

By Yangki Christine Akiteng We women are very good at making ourselves desirable in the beginning of a relationship but really bad at keeping the attraction after the initial “oh-wow!” wears off and the man you’ve been dating for weeks or months starts to lose interest. How do you make sure that doesn’t happen with […]

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The Descent

October 21, 2011

The rains did not keep us down. It helped us descend. In the middle of October 2011 over 100 men converged in the highlands of West Virginia… searching for something. They were not searching for gold, but something golden. They were not searching for a wise man, but for wisdom. And they were not searching […]

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Enough is Enough!

September 22, 2011

As we look outside our windows, this has been a tough summer for many of us. Intense heat, earthquakes, hurricanes and more flooding! We have all had to find ways to stay cool, dry and safe. It makes us want to throw our hands up and scream to the weather gods “Enough is enough already!” […]

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Guts or Mush? Putting Up with Us, Men!

August 17, 2011

I often wonder how women put up with us men! Yeah, I also wonder how we men put up with women sometimes! But really, women need a lot of patience when it comes to us. For example, I wonder if women think… Why do most men get so wrapped up in football, and not wrapped […]

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From Trauma to Intimacy: Helping Men to Connect

August 9, 2011

Connecting within a relationship is difficult enough for men! They are hardwired to think and act in different ways than women. In addition, men have been conditioned to repel authenticity and openness, affection and longing, at the expense of deeply connecting in relationship. Traumas, particularly sexual traumas, often have men behaving like boys in relationships. […]

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How to Have a Sexual Married Life

April 13, 2011

For millions of men, it is very tough to have sexual married life. Especially in long term relationships, men lose the profound sexual passion. They become emotionally absent and put their relationship under stress. Therefore, the adversity of the relationship makes their women cheat on them. “YOU HAVE TO BE AN EXTRAORDINARY MAN IN ORDER […]

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Charlie Sheen Didn’t Read This…

April 13, 2011

Get Out of Your Rut and into Your Strut Charlie Sheen is one of our most current public examples (to put it lightly) of an unbalanced life! Balance is essential to living a healthy life. Yes, you may have heard that over and over again leaving you tired of hearing it again! But it’s true. […]

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Sexless to Suc-Sex-Ful Relationships

February 17, 2011

Many people, particularly men, passing through my office, have at one point or another complained about their sex lives. They either want more sex, or different sex, or all too often they just want no sex. For the purposes of this article, the focus will be on the latter. It is hoped that your relationship […]

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Men and Trust

February 17, 2011

At least once a week one of my clients or someone who has purchased one of my e-books asks the same relationship question, “What do men really want?” It’s pretty simple. Deep inside their hearts, what men want is to be trusted. Trust makes a man feel powerful. That’s important, because most men crave power. […]

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Easy vs. Difficult

December 20, 2010

Easy is to judge the mistakes of others Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes   Easy is to talk without thinking Difficult is to refrain the tongue   Easy is to hurt someone who loves us Difficult is to heal the wound   Easy is to forgive others Difficult is to ask for forgiveness […]

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